THE LATE, great RALPH BATES was the eponymous hero, dumped via mantlepiece-mounted letter by his wife and forced to take solace in a lonely hearts-style encounter group which turns out to be nutter haven. Group leader is bizarre, rotund woman with no clue whatsoever, other members included a slightly dippy woman for developing love interest with Bates, Ralph, a wooly-hatted loser (“Would you like a ride in my motorcycle combination”) played by PETER “PLEASE, SIR” DENYER and Kirk St. Moritz, medallion chauvinist who turned out to be shy mummy’s boy in real life.
Dear John
1986 to 1987 on BBC1


Sullivan’s best work.
My Dad really liked this, was it’s short run due to Ralph Bates’ ill health or John Sullivan being too busy with Just Good Friends, & Only Fools & Horses.
This was a lovely show. The characters grew on you over time, and only Kirk’s bizarre action-hero turn in the last episode, completely dismantling his quite poignant alter-ego, left a sour note. Proof that traditional sitcoms could create room for likeable characters. John Sullivan RIP.
“Any…………*sexual* problems..??” is a line that will stay with me forever.
As an easily-embarrassed youngster, my mum loved to repeat this line, followed by a huge cackle of laughter.
And still does.